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  • Oct 31, 2012, 04:54 AM
    sweetie123
    Complicated love message.
    I met one guy that I'm not expecting that we fall in love each other. Now I tried to have relation with him, its been two months now.

    But this guy has a wife but he's not with her now, I think my feelings get so deep, but I know he love his wife also, but I know he loves me too. Now I want to ask if I need to continue this relations, even I'm getting hurt or jealous to his wife. How can I do that if its hard for me to let him go? I know we love each other.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 05:08 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    He's willing to build a relationship with someone other than his wife, what makes you think he won't do it to you too? He has a wife, move on.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 05:17 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    You stop seeing him, till he has filed for divorce and is getting a divorce from his wife.

    He is not single. And of course if he does marry you, what would stop him from dating someone else then, he has no issue doing it now
  • Oct 31, 2012, 05:47 AM
    talaniman
    You both may have love, or think you do but its not healthy, and until he is divorced he is a lying cheater, and you are helping him cheat on his wife.

    If a man can cheat on his wife it's a simple thing to cheat on you. But you are right about one thing, YOU will be the one who gets hurt.

    Leave married people alone.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 06:10 AM
    sweetie123
    ... how can I quit to this relationship?I know this is wrong,stupid and unfair to his wife,honesly I want to break this because its hurting me... but its hurt a lot if I let him go right?
  • Oct 31, 2012, 06:24 AM
    teacherjenn4
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sweetie123 View Post
    ...how can i quit to this relationship?i know this is wrong,stupid and unfair to his wife,honesly i want to break this coz its hurting me...but its hurt a lot if i let him go right?

    You are in love with a married man. If he truly loves you, he will be able to date you when he is divorced. For now, you are seeing a cheater, and you are the other woman. Is that want you want?
  • Oct 31, 2012, 08:27 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sweetie123 View Post
    ...how can i quit to this relationship?i know this is wrong,stupid and unfair to his wife,honesly i want to break this coz its hurting me...but its hurt a lot if i let him go right?

    You can either listen to your heart and stay in a bad situation, or bear the pain of getting out of it because of common sense.

    Choose, as its going to hurt and be hard either way!

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