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  • Oct 31, 2012, 04:50 AM
    Misteque
    My boyfriend and I had a fall out since I was not very friendly to his friend.
    My boyfriend and I recently had a fall out since I was not friendly towards his female friend. I apologized for the way I acted twice and I don't know what to do. He now sleeps in the guest room, I tried getting him back to our room plus I apologized some more but he told me he wanted to sleep so I left him be.

    We have been experiencing a rough patch in our relationship and now things just got rockier. I am so frustrated. Please help.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 04:54 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    My concern is, how 'unfriendly' were you to his friend to make him want to sleep in the guest room. Give it time, you've done all you can do, the rest is up to him.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 04:58 AM
    Misteque
    All I did was just say hello and added a couple of words then I minded my own business, they were talking and I was simply quiet ; I did not have anything to add to that. Then I went to my room and stayed there.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 05:03 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    What's done is done and you've done all you can, you appologized and showed sympthathy. The rest is up to him. Just give it time. If he forgives you, then communicate with him. Figure out exactly what it is about that situation that bothered him and keep it in mind for the future.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 05:05 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Where they visiting in your and his home ? Who are were visiting ?

    To be honest you don't have to like his friends, I don't like, I actually somewhat hate a few of my wife's friends. You are he are not required to have the same friends. Or like the same things. Perhaps unless they were staying up too late, you should have stayed in the room with them. And visited.

    But at this point he is just being childish.
  • Oct 31, 2012, 05:09 AM
    Misteque
    Thanks... I'll give it some time and hopefully he'll come around... as for the reason why he is so pissed off is cause I keep doing that when he brings his female friends around.. am not comfortable with them around... I seriously need to stop this behavior before it became the end of us and our three year relationship.

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