My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have everything possible in common. When we spend time together we never argue, however when we are apart I question whether he loves me, even though he tells and shows me all the time.

He is starting to give up on us and it hurts me very badly. He says I am insecure and I need to find myself, I was married previously and my husband then was unfaithful multiple times, was an alcoholic, and very sneaky about the cheating part, there was a lot of mistrust on my part (of course). I thought I had let go of all of the hurt, could this be my problem? And how can I get better? I don't want to ruin my relationship. Please help.