I'm a 16 yr old girl and I'm bisexual. Okay I'm not desperate or anything but I really want a girlfriend. I see all these lesbian couples on twitter and Facebook and in person showing their affection towards each other and I really want that because I'm a sweetheart and I know I'll make my girlfriend the happiest girl in the world. I want to take her on dates and leave her cute little notes in her locker. I'm a good looking girl and I'm smart with a great personality so why can't I find a girlfriend? What should I do in order to get one? :/

Keep meeting people. If someone interests you than ask her out. That's really all you can do. There's really no way for any of us to tell you how to find a girlfriend. Your reasons however, wanting to leave cute notes in her locker, take her on dates, are the strangest reasons for wanting a girlfriend that I've ever heard.

How many girls have you asked out on dates ?

Depending on how big your school is, it might not be easy to find someone until after high school. I know a gay guy whose school of about 400 students only had about one other openly gay guy in it throughout his 4 years. How many are openly gay or not might snowball in bigger schools because there's safety in numbers, not because there's only 1 gay/lesbian in 400.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

How many girls have you asked out on dates ?

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One and she flat out turned me down. She's bi too.

There's a lot of girls out there.. if that's what you really want then just keep trying and looking. If your everything you said you were then you shouldn't have too much trouble.