Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and have a daughter together... we have been through the majority of our relationship without any major arguments however recently I was over working and I became lazy in our relationship (I didn't show her the affection I used to and we gradually drifted apart slightly)... later on down the line I realize that she has found he attention and affection from another man... however I confronted her about this and we both agreed that we would try and make it work... things got a little better but she still remains in contact with the other man... I don't want to take a mate away from her but I want to know if she feels the same way I do about her because I almost worship the ground she walks on... is there anything somebody can suggest to see if she still feels the same or any advice at all
Thanks

She probably does if not she would breack up right if you had a kid I think she probably still likes you anyway if you don't see fucher then end it you will be sad for a while but soon you will find someone new

Since you have a child with her you have the upper hand. But you must lay all cards on the table. If you worship the ground she walks on why isn't she your wife? Maybe you are in this position because you haven't committed to her. Have a talk with her find out if she is serious about this other guy, then you will know what to do.

Good Luck!

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Originally Posted by pepper81

Since you have a child with her you have the upper hand. But you must lay all cards on the table. If you worship the ground she walks on why isn't she your wife? Maybe you are in this position because you haven't committed to her. Have a talk with her find out if she is serious about this other guy, then you will know what to do.

Good Luck!

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We haven't got married as I thought it would have been best to get through this patch and then pop the question... I didn't think me asking her for her hand in marriage would have helped although I am re-considering that idea now

She's confused and bewildered for the moment. Taking her back or how to rekindle the used to be passion is at your hand now!