I got married 2 years ago. I have child from him but I don't see him at all because of his work and in his free time he doesn't care or talk with me. I got tired of this. I dated my sisters EX husband 3 times he seems to like me. He is gentleman but I don't think he is the one I would leave my partner for.

Now I feel sick and confused. When I met one of my date friends which I felt OK about him, and a month later I thought to myself god where was I from this guy he got all what it takes to make us together forever (this guy has a kid though too) and single.

NOW WHAT SHOULD I TELL MY HUSBAND? I'm dating a guy behind your back?? >>I bet he won't care << How shall I apologize for my date, that he is not the one?

Would the third guy accept me to be his?

Are you serious?
Have you tried to work on your marriage? You might want to try that. Leave the other two guys alone until things are settled in your marriage.

Harshness warning

Any guy would be an absolute FOOL to give his heart and love to a lying cheater! A married one at that. Go home and solve your marriage problems or get a divorce. That's what you should have done in the first place.

Start with being honest, that you are not happy with him, and have cheated, and likely he will solve your problem for you by dumping you. I would!

Leave ALL the guys alone until you handle your business with your husband!!

Please tell me your joking?
Im behind talen 100%.

I really cannot stand when a woman or man complains about not seeing their partner due to work.
Let me guess you don't work the hours he does at a job?
You really got the nerve to complain about that when the fact is he's working for his family which is you and your child ,but still you can sit here and say ''he doesn't care''.
Maybe work on your relationship tell him what you did.
Even though you don't deserve him.

If you do have to go to a divorce though because of your actions you should give him your child because all he does is work to provide according to you while you cheat on him. So it would be unhuman to take this mans child from him

If there is one reason I would hang to him is for my child ,when ever I talk to my hus always discussing about how our relationship is weak at the end we agree happy about it.. wont happened again but, later on all fade in vain and this is how it goes over and over . I will fight till the end for my Kid

This going from one man to the next, cheating on your husband is not a good example for your child. You need to either work on the marriage or leave it.

If you have all that time to date other men, you have time to work yourself. You have time for clean adult activities that provide for your needs, and helps your family. Its only been 2 years and you are bored and frustrated?

Was he like this before while you dated, or was this an arranged marriage? Is cheating acceptable in your culture?

Married and your husband works count your blessings! STOP cheating and find ways to date your husband and make time interesting. Occupy your time with something good and constructive. The grass is not greener on the other side there is a lot of trash out there. Men who cheat with a married woman aren't worth your time.