Iam 26 and my fiancé " he proposed" is 20. I have two boys.. when I moved in over this way he use to play with my boys came to meet me and was one of my best friends for nearly 8 months and we started dating. Its now bn a year and we live together in my apartment. I don't like how immature his friends are and I always complain when they are at the house because I feel they don't take our relatiinship serious. Always making fun of him and saying stupid things. He is absolutely amazing and extremely close with m boys. Lately I have bn noticing he has bn hanging with the one friend and has bn getting stressed about our bills.. I'm always complaing that I feel we aren't best of friends anymore and. He says he feels everythings mine and he can't have his friend over at the house without me getting upset.. which I do.. how can I make us better? Please I need advice

I think he's kind of right about what he said..
My friends used to tease me about my relationship all the time, but they just joke around I'm sure his friends don't really mean all those things they say to him..
He is having stress with bills and with you constantly nagging him, kind of not allowing him to spend some time with his friends will only make it harder for him..
Give the guy some break, he loves you and is dedicated to you, so stop worrying about what his friends say to him..

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Originally Posted by exenis

I think he's kind of right about what he said..
My friends used to tease me about my relationship all the time, but they just joke around I'm sure his friends don't really mean all those things they say to him..
He is having stress with bills and with you constantly nagging him, kinda not allowing him to spend some time with his friends will only make it harder for him..
Give the guy some break, he loves you and is dedicated to you, so stop worrying about what his friends say to him..

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Yes I understand.. but how can I keep him from.. I don't know it feels like secrets frm me?? When he's around his friends..
Like its not a problem with him hanging wit friends its certain ones that I feel are a bad situation to b around.. only reason I get upswill beuz he will lie to not make me upset.. its making me upset he keeps things.. or is it a guy thing..

He is 20. From your post, you say you met him when he came over to play with your kids. So, you guys have been together since he was 18, and are upset because he isn't acting adult enough for you? How old are your children?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

He is 20. From your post, you say you met him when he came over to play with your kids. So, you guys have been together since he was 18, and are upset because he isn't acting adult enough for you? How old are your children?

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No he was 19 when I first met him.. that's y we were friends so long
I would not date someone younger then me. My boys are six and five. And no not upset.. jus don't know if he's acting to young or if its me thinking too much into it because the age difference bothers me. I feel as if he's not living his life evn though thts never bn an argument.. he would rather be out with the boys then out doing anything else. He def acts older.. there's no partying or any of that..

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Originally Posted by tink524288

No he was 19 whn i first met him.. that's y we were friends so long
I would not date someone younger thn me. My boys are six and five. And no not upset..jus don't know if he's acting to young or if its me thinking to much into it because the age differance bothers me. I feel as if he's not living his life evn tho thts never bn an argument..he would rather b out with the boys thn out doing anything else. He def acts older..there's no partying or any of tht..

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Your boys are six and five. Your fiancé is acting his age, hanging out with his friends.

But you ARE dating someone who is younger than you. He's 20 and he is still immature as are his friends. Women mature much sooner than men do.