I have these bugs in are bedrm they leave little blck leaves looking when I first picked one up it shocked me made my hands feel like I been eletricuted I've found these "shells" and my daughters and my hair... plz help is it lice,bed bugs or have they mated sumn new

Probably not lice; they attach to you and don't let go. If dark brown, probably fleas. Fleas leave little dots - eggs. If light brown, probably bedbugs. Mites are too small to really see easily. There are other possible bugs, but put one in a white bowl of hot water and take a good look at it's shape and legs and answer back, describing it.