Okay so I've been dating this girl for a while now and I will be done paying off her engagement ring Friday. Now today she started to pack all her things and leave because she thought she was pregnant an she is only 22 an I'm 24 but niether of us are financially stable but her coworkers and my sister inlaw told her to get a abortion and I am against that an would never murder my child, but she tested negative on her test. But when she went to work today she called her exboyfriend 14 times and texted an bunch of stuff to him. He beat her an used her for money an keeps talking to him and he wants to be with her an she says she feels bad but keeps telling him she loves him. Also she is a compulsive liar, has given me chlymidia a STD when we first started dating, doesn't tell people she has a boyfriend, had a skout account that I found out about today, an her younger sister told me to leave her an never look back, and that's not even the half of it. I am really in love with this girl and I don't know what to do ? This is really affecting my health an self esteem Some real advice is needed not a two word answer. I'm seriously comptiplating suicide an I'm very depressed now. I'm a honest good hearted guy an I just don't know what to do. She said she would stay, but she called her Ex 16 times an saw him after work to at like 12 am. I'm really hurting inside. I don't know what to do

How old are you guys? How long have you been together? Kids?

I think that being in a relationship with a compulsive liar is very dangerous, especially if it's making you react this way (suicide). She shouldn't be having any contact with the ex boyfriend, it is disrespecting to you. If her own flesh and blood (sister) is telling you to stay away from her, maybe she knows something that you don't. I know being in love is tough and can make you do/feel crazy. From what I read, she doesn't seem to care as much as you do, otherwise she wouldn't have anything to do with the ex. I think she is looking for trouble. People can change, if THEY want to. You can make someone change. Maybe taking a break and finding yourself would be a good thing, if she comes back, then it was worth it. I have a feeling when you do take a break, she will be in the arms of the ex.

Good luck.