I never used to have pain at all an dnow my boyfriend can't even touch me? We have tried lube, doing it more in hope of getting use to him, not doing it at all then doing it, everything still hurts! Please help me!

Have you told this to a doctor and let him/her examine you?

No I'm very worried my boyfriend thinks its normal but he's not feeling how bad it hurts it feels like he's RIPPing me open from inside out. Its awful

Go to a doctor!