My daughter will be 2 next month & my ex is taking me to court for visitation /custody rights. He hasn't come to see her since she was 4months old. I don't want him to see her. The only reason he is going is because probation sent him a letter for non payment. He hasn't paid any $ for her. What do I tell the courts at the hearing since he didn't want to see her & he does drugs & I am scared for her to go with him.