My Boyfriend had a text message on his phone telling a girl he used to be with "I love you & miss you" on his main cell. On his other cell was a message to the same girl "Good Morning i love you" he claims he Did not send those messages. Should I believe him? Do phones do that sort of thing by themselves?

They do not appear by themselves. How old are the both of you that he thought you would believe that?

No, phones are not self-aware and are incapable of loving anyone. He sent them.

Its clear as day that he sent them..

One slim possibility that someone saw his phone (unlocked) unattended and sent messages to cause him trouble, but very unlikely.

Well, I don't BELIEVE him! I will be showing him these responses!!

You might want to consider dumping him as well.

Wow, he actually thought you'd believe that his phone sent those messages, and not him? Nope, phones can't do that, only humans can, and this human is not only lying to you, but it looks like he's cheating too.

Time to kick him and his phone to the curb.

I am sorry, why anyone would even think it is possible, trying hard to believe him.

Of course phones do not do that. He is lying big time

Yes you are believing him, if you want to waste your time "showing him the answers" and why, what do you want to prove?

You dump him, don't give him the time of day and go on with life

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Yes you are believing him, if you want to waste your time "showing him the answers" and why, what do you want to prove?

you dump him, don't give him the time of day and go on with life

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I agree. Why even bother showing him what we wrote. He knows that the phone didn't send the message, and anyone with a reasonable amount of intelligence wouldn't have even though twice about his lie.

What you do now is show him that you're not as dumb as he hoped. You're not buying his lie, because his lie is so stupid it makes no sense. You break up with him, and show him that you're smarter than he thought you were.

I told him last night that I am leaving on the 3rd and that I WILL NOT RETURN!! I KNOW HE IS USING ME BIG TIME! AND YES THERE IS A PART OF ME that WANTS to believe him but I KNOW... HES A LIAR!!