How do I deal with this kind of women? Should I just be friends with them I'm thinking that's a bad idea and just go for it when she is ready and stay away for now.

If that's what you are thinking, then that's what you should do. We can't tell you how to act. Some men are OK with the idea, some aren't. And there is a whole range of meaning in the sentence 'I don't want a relationship right now.' Some say that and mean it for what it is, such as they just got burned or are still in love with someone who dumped them, and some say it as a polite way to mean get lost.

Who sits and waits for someone to be ready for a relationship? Explore other and better options for romance, and fun. You don't have to wait on someone to give you a chance.

Emotions are changed just as easy as opinions. If you think you can change the way she sees you than go for it.