Hi, tonight is Tuesday, and I had sexual intercourse with my girlfriend last Friday.. about 4 days ago. I did not wear a condom, and I am 75% sure I pulled out in time. I know for sure that I did not have my full erection in her, because it got pretty messy. It is now 4 days and she told me that she has cramps in her lower abdomen, and that she has been slightly tired and itchy lately. Not totally fatigued, but she has been feeling tired. Her breasts do not hurt in any way, nor did her nipples get darker. She occasionally takes nap at least once a day anyway, so we aren't sure if these are sheer signs of pregnancy or not. Tomorrow will be Wednesday October 24th, 2012. I am taking my girlfriend to Savemart to buy a first response pregnancy test. Do you think it is too early at 5 days? Please help me through it. My girlfriend and I have agreed that we are not ready for a kid, as we are financially struggling freshmen in college. Please help us out in anyway you can! Thank you so much.

You cannot get pregnancy symptoms so soon after intercourse.

When is her next period due as this sounds more like PMS.
Save your HPT money until she is late by at least a week..

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Originally Posted by Curlyben

You cannot get pregnancy symptoms so soon after intercourse.

When is her next period due as this sounds more like PMS.


Save your HPT money until she is late by at least a week..

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Well, she said should be back on her period around early November.. I'm thinking from November 5th - 10th.. should be around that range. We are so paranoid and scared. I do not know how I will handle this. I just need to be sure. I need comfort again. I have a midterm this week and I cannot relax and focus on it. I have definitely learned my lesson to always wear protection.

As has been said, it's too early to have symptoms and it's far too early to test.

Also note that the withdrawal method makes people parents and should not be used as a form of birth control.

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Originally Posted by J_9

As has been said, it's too early to have symptoms and it's far too early to test.

Also note that the withdrawal method makes people parents and should not be used as a form of birth control.

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Yes. Me and my girlfriend have agreed never to have unprotected sex.. and we will not have any sexual intercourse until we are sure that she is not pregnant. What should we do for now? The waiting game is too nerve racking for me.

There is nothing you can do but wait to see if her period comes when expected.

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There is nothing you can do but wait to see if her period comes when expected.

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Thank you. I will keep you guys updated. I do not know what to do.
This is too stressing.

If these are just signs of PMS, wouldn't it be bad? Because she had her period about 2 weeks ago.. She is supposed to have her next period around the second week of November, so why is she having symptoms of PMS so soon?