We have been dating for 3yrs... we are 18... we want to have sex we have been doing orals but now we can't contol ourselves anymore but we are also afraid of pregnancy... :( I love her don't want to put her in some that kind of trouble at all.. plz need a smart opinion... help us.. thank you..

You are a very smart person to be afraid of pregnancy if you are not prepared to be parents. There are quite a few forms of birth control, but remember that there is no form of birth control that is 100% effective.

If you are not ready for a child, continue to abstain from sex.

Hmm... thanx a lot! :) but z there nothing to prevent pregnancy? :(

Nope, nothing.

I'll give you an example.

I was on the pill AND used a condom. I got pregnant not once, but twice. I also had cancer and had to have chemotherapy. The chemo would make me sterile. 4 years later I had a child who is now 10 years old.

We have another member who used not 2, but 3 forms of birth control. She had a baby.

Are you willing to risk that for a few minutes of fun?

:o chuck it! We ll wait... thanx a ton! :D ba bye! :)thankyou so much..

Agree, no method is 100 percent, even using condoms and her on birth control pills for over a month and never missing one pill ( but many women miss pills) she can still get pregnant. So there is no 100 percent sure.

Well I don't want any kind f mess... we ll wait! Thank you so much!

I will add that you will find there is often as much or more pleasure in foreplay as there is in intercourse.