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  • Oct 22, 2012, 10:33 PM
    Res642
    My girlfriend of 6 month
    Hi I had been going out with a girl I knew for about 3 years but finally went iut 8 month after high school finished for both of us and both went to different colleges but lived in the same area now I broke up with her because she kept talking about other guys a lot and always made me feel like I wasn't good enough and well all my friends kept telling me I could get way better she had a few extra pounds and I work out but not enough compared to all the others guys and all the firemapen her slutty friend has one night stands with. Then when she felt like she was losing me she made me a scene but I was use to it since she always made scenes when it didn't go the way she like or I changed plans last minute one time I changed plans because I was suppose to go to dinner with my friend and her but one of my 2 best friends didn't like her very much because I couldn't see them anymore and when I did something with my friends she would make a scene because I wasn't with her. So back to the dinner story, one of my 2 best friend didn't want to come because she was coming but I told him the day before then I went and picked her up from school because I promissed her I would drive her home since I could have dinner with her because I need to talk to my friend to understand the problem he has with her she started crying and telling me she was pregnant and all that crap and relly changed mood and well acted like a hollywood professional and made me believe she was so I told her I wanted to buy a test at the pharmacie in witch she refuse completely . The next day I convinced her to take one while I was there she agreed but told seemed not to care a few miserable weeks passed before I finely had it and broke up now I don't know if I did the right thing or not ps I'm 20 she was 19
  • Oct 23, 2012, 07:54 AM
    Schofimel
    She sounds abit of a handful! So let me break it down, she talks about other boys whilst with you, she gets angry when you want to hang around with your mates, and she faked being pregnant because she was scared of losing you?. I'm a 17 year old girl, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, when he wants to be with his friends, I go with mine, it's important to be with your friends now and then, I've never even thought about another boy! And I definitely would not lie about being pregnant.. See the thing about girls is that they think controlling their boyfriends is the way to hold on to their relationships.. In 3 years I've realised to keep a relationship is to be true and to listen to each others problems and what each other want.. Trust me, this girl is nothing but trouble from what you've wrote down.. Do yourself a favour and find a girl who is willing to listen and communicate with you rather than make things up to keep you near.. Never works.. You sound like a nice guy so do yourself a favour and find someone who deserves you and makes you feel like all she needs is you! It's possible, don't let this girl bring you down :)
  • Oct 23, 2012, 07:58 AM
    Res642
    The thing is that now after feeling miserable I don't want to get into a relationship but is there anything I can tell myself
  • Oct 23, 2012, 08:13 AM
    Schofimel
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    Originally Posted by Res642 View Post
    The thing is that now after feeling miserable i dont want to get into a relationship but is there anything i can tell my self
    You don't need to find someone just yet, let her come to you.. Just live your life for now, go and have a laugh with your friends, be yourself for a while.. It's up to you whether you want to be with this girl or not, but my advice is don't be, she's not worth it.. U may be hurt about it now but when you've got that right girl in your arms, you won't even think twice about this one
  • Oct 23, 2012, 08:16 AM
    Res642
    Thanks she was my first girlfriend it lasted 6 month and its over now every time I think of her I just get mad because I feel mnipulated and it discusts me but ill wait for the right girl thanks for the reply
  • Oct 23, 2012, 08:25 AM
    Schofimel
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Res642 View Post
    Thanks she was my first gf it lasted 6 month and its over now every time i think of her i just get mad because i feel mnipulated and it discusts me but ill wait for the right girl thanks for the reply
    No probs, I hope you all the best, is girls arnt all the same :) I met my boyfriend in the hospital! Lol was at a party and I slipped and broke my arm, he was chillin with some of my friends and they all came to see me, I really liked him and we hit it off streight away, 3 years later I couldn't be more happier.. See, your perfect girl could be anywhere, you'll see :D

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