Me and my girlfriend have neen going out for a couple months now and although it may not be that long, this girl means the world to me. But I ed up and cheated on her with another girl from the same school. How do I keep her from finding out and how do I get her to stay with me if she does find out? I realize I made a mistake but I truly feel that I love this girl. Some one please help!

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Originally Posted by ibike131

although it may not be that long, this girl means the world to me.

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Obviously that isn't true. If it was true, you would never have cheated. You can say all you want but it comes down to the simple fact that if she truly did mean the world to you, it would never have happened. Of course your big concern is how to keep her from finding out. Honestly, she would be better off if she did find out.

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Originally Posted by ibike131

Supposed to say f***ed up. Not just ed. Website wont let u curse

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We know.

Though saying this is hard but, telling her the truth rather then letting her find out from something else (like a rumor, or gossip) would be worse. If your love for her is real then try your best to earn her forgiveness, building a relationship on deception won't work.

She'll find out and either way you will suffer the consequences. She deserves better!

To be or not to be----that's your question. Good luck, bro.

Dw I'm in the same boat except I'm a girl. Look if it was me I'd just want to find out th truth and why you did it. Then I'd make my mind up from there