Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago. We dated for 7 months and everything was perfect to me. We rarely fought and we got along like best friends.

The day after we broke up she went out with her friends like it was nothing I went and talked to her the next day and she was acting like nothing was a big deal which was a big frustration.

She ended up saying that she lost feeling and that we are too different. I really don't get it still. I've had the hardest time trying to get over her I was severely depressed and still am. I couldn't do anything for weeks.

I'm still friends with her on Facebook and its almost like she dumped me to go party with her best friend who hates me.

So now they go out all the time and I see this picture of my ex and some guy that she posted (my ex)

I know that you are going to say "she doesnt care about you and you shouldnt care about her"
But its more than that I'm going through a really hard time I've been feeling so depressed I used to be so happy I just hate what I'm going through and don't see why this is happening to me.

I was in the same kind of situation with my ex boyfriend and I truly feel he's the one and everyday I show him he's the only person I want in my life and then we started to be friends with benefits because I felt that I needed to take him how I could get him and then he finally realized that I meant that I wanted him forever JUST SHOW YOU LOVE AND LOYALTY TO HE AND YOU WILL GET HER BACK

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Originally Posted by kkay2012

i was in the same kind of situation with my ex boyfriend and i truly feel hes the one and everyday i show him hes the only person i want in my life and then we started to be friends with benifits because i felt that i needed to take him how i could get him and then he finally realized that i ment that i wanted him forever JUST SHOW YOU LOVE AND LOYALTY TO HE AND YOU WILL GET HER BACK

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I'm trying but its hard to show that I love her now. I see her for classes I take in college that we signed up for while we were dating and I act the same way I used too. We still get a long just as great as before.

I'm so glad that there is someone like you that went through this.. to me this is consuming my whole world. Its hard to accept that I can't do anything about.

Thank you for responding I know this is just a computer but it helps knowing that you care and you got through a horrible situation like this.

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Originally Posted by Johnathan92

i'm trying but its hard to show that i love her now. i see her for classes i take in college that we signed up for while we were dating and i act the same way i used too. We still get a long just as great as before.

i'm so glad that there is someone like you that went through this.. to me this is consuming my whole world. its hard to accept that i can't do anything about.

thank you for responding i know this is just a computer but it helps knowing that you care and you got through a horrible situation like this.

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No problem just stay strong and keep love and hope alive and you will be just fine remember time heals all wounds

Went through the same thing more often than not you can't get her back and you shouldn't want to. I know getting over love is hard it could take months or years but I really think for your own sanity and heath you should start working towards letting go of her and moving on. It's a painful process I know but believe me when I say its worth it. It took me 6 months to get over it with me.

I know its hard for you trust me I'm in the same situation now as you are.
My ex asked me for a break at first but then told me we were done.. Truth was her best friend (who is also my friend) told her some lies about me that affected her mind about our relationship.
Best thing to do is try to move on, try not to contact her.. Try to avoid her that will help you to get over her. Its hard I know, but try not to be depressed instead go out with friends, work out..
If you will be with her she will let you know, getting depressed won't help you at all, you will just hurt yourself more.
The first few days will be hard but if you put your mind into it you will get over her..