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  • Oct 20, 2012, 11:59 AM
    draculaura666
    Why is he lying to me?
    Me and this guy are very good friends for all most a year now. He actually asked me out before but I said no.. hmm I wish I said yes, because I really like him now.

    Well recently I found out that he has a girlfriend. I asked him about her but he said they're just friends!. But they are in a relationship on Facebook and he listed her as his partner too, but he keeps on lying to me and tells me they're just friends :/

    And he said he loves me so much but if he really does why wouldn't he just ask me out or something. I'm really confused and I really like him. When we speak we act like lovers but I can't trust him and I can't move on too.

    SO please help!
  • Oct 20, 2012, 01:00 PM
    odinn7
    He's with her and seems to me like he's wanting to mess around with you and cheat on her. Do you really want someone like that? You do realize if he's doing that to her, he will also do it to you as well.
  • Oct 20, 2012, 07:43 PM
    talaniman
    How can a liar be a friend, or a possible romantic date? Cut all contact with this liar and you can move on. Count yourself lucky you didn't date him before and get played for a fool.
  • Oct 22, 2012, 03:25 AM
    eddie5498
    He is edging his bets , hasn't the courage to ask you out as is already embroiled elsewhere but if it came to a choice of you and her he would lie in front of her about you . Believe me, don't get involved. He is playing and lying..
  • Oct 22, 2012, 12:28 PM
    draculaura666
    Boy problem.. SOS!
    What it means when a boy says he loves you and wants you and he spends hours talking to you on Facebook.. then when he meets you outside he ignores you like he doesn't even know you!
    P.S: he's saying he got problems and he can't be with me right now.. and he's asking me to wait for him!. because he got a girlfriend :/.. should I wait for him or just move on ( I'm in love with him )
    Please help!
  • Oct 22, 2012, 02:51 PM
    track_girly15
    Honey you need to move on most likely he's going to cheat on you either that or he's leading you on
  • Oct 23, 2012, 06:20 PM
    teensportychick
    I agree ^

    You may think you are in love with him... but if he treats you like that you really arnt... Just stop talking to him and if he really loves you he will break up with his girlfriend and find time for you... its hard but you just have to do that before he completely breaks your heart... im sorry hun
  • Oct 27, 2012, 12:28 PM
    draculaura666
    I hate my life because of this.. what should I do :((
    Well I loved this boy so much and he said he loves me too.. but he got a girlfriend.. he asked me to wait for him so I did... but lately he send me a message saying ( why you're telling everybody I love you.. we're just friends) I was shocked :((
    Next day I found out that he's in love with his girlfriend not me and he's just leading me on :((
    I just can't get over this.. I told him that I love him but I didn't try to steal him from he's girl... and now this girl is trying to make my life a living hell..
    I was thinking of sending her our Facebook conversation just to see how her imageniry boyfriend used to act around me.. he told that I'm the one and he doesn't care about her.. I bet she'll pass out.. but I won't do that because I'm better than that
    I just can't move on from this.. any advice pllz.. I'm losing it :((
  • Oct 27, 2012, 12:45 PM
    talaniman
    Why can't you accept the fact his words are false and leave him alone. Find a REAL friend whose shoulder you can cry on. Yeah it hurts, we have all been through it, and leaving him alone is when the healing process starts and you don't have to lose it.

    Don't accept his just friendship. How old are you, and is this your first love, or the strongest, or BOTH?
  • Oct 27, 2012, 12:48 PM
    draculaura666
    I'm 18 and yes it's my truly first and stongest love so :((
  • Oct 30, 2012, 06:41 PM
    teensportychick
    Im really sorry :( My heart goes out for you :( I have recently discovered that having a broken heart SUCKS! My advise... Chocolate and TV... It really works! I am kind of paying for all the chocolate now but... it did cover the pain and it made me feel better... I am again really sorry I know there is nothing I can say that can help you right now.. im sorry :( Oh and I also went on Google a lot and typed in love quotes... it really does help

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