So I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now. She is still in love with her ex and they are close and they hangout still. She won't tell him that she is dating me and I was planning to give her time to move on and tell him but I don't know if she ever will. I feel like she is dating me and him at the same time. It seems that she is not committed to moving on. What should I do?

Why did they break up, if they still care about each other? It's not fair to you that this is going on. Is she open about all of this? If there are secrets, this is a huge problem. Trust and communication in a relationship is crucial. I recommend you tell her this is bothering you. Be open and honest with her how you feel.

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Originally Posted by tornbetween

Why did they break up, if they still care about each other? It's not fair to you that this is going on. Is she open about all of this? If there are secrets, this is a huge problem. Trust and communication in a relationship is crucial. I recommend you tell her this is bothering you. Be open and honest with her how you feel.

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She has been open about this. She said that her heart is still with him. They dated for over 2 year but she said they always fighted and she said that he is controlling. The thing is I saw on Facebook that they are still together but then why would she ask me out and date me?