I'm her first and vice versa but we been having intercourse since third month and we've been dating for 2 years now. She says it hurts to pee afterwards and I'm sure she doesn't have anything because I don't. And she crys after sex saying it hurts to pee. I have average size penis so I know its not that. 9 inch hard is average right? But back to the point. What should we do because now she doesn't like the sex because she says it always hurts. But we usually have sex then wait close to a month to do it again.

I am going to assume you are not early teens; try using a tiny bit of baby lotion (or KY Jelly)to ease the way. She is probably too dry and that is not good for her vaginal canal causing lesions that may become irritated, therefore, she is uncomfortable when urinating after.

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I am going to assume you are not early teens; try using a tiny bit of baby lotion (or KY Jelly)to ease the way. She is probably too dry and that is not good for her vaginal canal causing lesions that may become irritated, therefore, she is uncomfortable when urinating after.

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Yeah early twenties. But she doesn't seem like she wants baby oil or lube

If she doesn't want baby oil or lube, or anything to facilitate this, then she is not really very interested. Some women just don't produce enough natural lube, or you are not giving her enough time in foreplay for this to develop.

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Originally Posted by tickle

If she doesnt want baby oil or lube, or anything to facilitate this, then she is not really very interested. Some women just dont produce enough natural lube, or you are not giving her enough time in foreplay for this to develop.

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How do I get her in the mood. She's the shy bookworm girl

Stop asking her for sex. Be a more caring boyfriend.

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Stop asking her for sex. Be a more caring boyfriend.

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OK