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  • Oct 14, 2012, 07:26 PM
    MinecraftGod
    I am extremely in love with this girl but I'm really embarrassed and nervous
    I am in 6th grade. I don't know if she likes me but its not like she hates me or anything I mean its not I like I say hi and she's to freaked out to be near me but... Im not exactly the best looking person but I try to look good. I try to be her friend and all but I get nervous when I'm around her. Help please! She is not so much in the popular group but she's average in popularity. The worst method I can think of to do is leave a note to her cause that's being a wimp in my opinion. I would hate to be looking like a total wimp in front of her 😱 I just worry about timing and her feelings. Her most recent boyfriend just broke up with her and I feel really bad but lucky cause its my chance now 😃 I have alternating classes in 3rd period in the day and she's in every one of those classes with me. I need help cause its my first time with dating and all. Please help meeeeeeeeeee!
  • Oct 14, 2012, 07:38 PM
    Wondergirl
    You DON'T want to be a rebound, so leave her alone for a bit.

    Meanwhile, let's build up yourself esteem. What would I like about you if I met you?
  • Oct 15, 2012, 05:15 AM
    MinecraftGod
    Well I actually don't see her too much, maybe 1 or 2 times day but I don't even talk to he cause I sort of get nervous... But something people might like about me is I'm friendly and thoughtful, I don't know if people care that I'm a computer geek but 😳... Im smart, I'm caring for people and stuff like that
  • Oct 15, 2012, 05:16 AM
    MinecraftGod
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You DON'T want to be a rebound, so leave her alone for a bit.

    Meanwhile, let's build up your self esteem. What would I like about you if I met you?

    Well I actually don't see her too much, maybe 1 or 2 times day but I don't even talk to he cause I sort of get nervous... But something people might like about me is I'm friendly and thoughtful, I don't know if people care that I'm a computer geek but 😳... Im smart, I'm caring for people and stuff like that
  • Oct 15, 2012, 06:52 AM
    Wondergirl
    What would you do to be romantic?
  • Oct 15, 2012, 02:09 PM
    MinecraftGod
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    What would you do to be romantic?

    I actually don't know 😜 this is my first experince with dating... Any advice?
  • Oct 15, 2012, 02:11 PM
    Wondergirl
    How would you show your mother you love her?
  • Oct 15, 2012, 06:22 PM
    MinecraftGod
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How would you show your mother you love her?

    Do I even have to do that? Makes me more nervous to do that
  • Oct 15, 2012, 06:33 PM
    Wondergirl
    Okay, then. Roaring right along... what would be the three most important qualities for a girlfriend to have?
  • Oct 15, 2012, 06:38 PM
    MinecraftGod
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MinecraftGod View Post
    Do i even have to do that? Makes me more nervous to do that

    In middle school I find it uncommon for relationships to be to serious such as you kiss her and take her out every weekend but for me to tell someone about my crush is sort of invading privacy, and I don't just mean me I think some other people might feel the same way to. I never really was into dating though.. I always thought that it was some silly joke in school and it was nothing I was worried about. When I got to middle school about 3 or 4 weeks into school I sort of cought on to this dating thing. I of course from the start didn't know who I liked but its really clear now. (My crushes name is page) ( not sure if I spelt her name correct I forget sometimes) I try to be nice, for example I gave her some candy in school today, making it look realistic as possible because I was giving out candy to lots of people (they were skittles 😃) So I just gave her some. I try to keeo my cool and all, you know like were polo stuff and wearing expensive headphones (beats wireless and skullcandy hesh) And not be weird in school. Any advice from when you were in school? (My age?)
  • Oct 15, 2012, 06:42 PM
    MinecraftGod
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Okay, then. Roaring right along ... what would be the three most important qualities for a girlfriend to have?

    In my opinion some qualities would be a nice, thoughtful, and pretty girl
  • Oct 15, 2012, 06:46 PM
    Wondergirl
    What does "nice" mean?
  • Oct 16, 2012, 06:38 PM
    MinecraftGod
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    What does "nice" mean?

    I was getting worried I was waiting to long to ask her out so I did, haven't gotten an answer back yet but thanks for the help :)

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