I've been with my boyfriend 6 yrs and we've always had a problem with him not being able to . He has before maybe less than ten times but the past year or two he hasn't at all. He's not really big on sex at all I always have to initiate it. He doesn't masturbate frequently and if he does he can't either so I doubt that's the problem. Oral sex doesn't do it either. I'm wondering what's wrong with him, he doesn't see it as a problem. He's a 37 year old black male. When we first got together he stated that he couldn't believe I can make him and that he was always afraid to get a girl pregnant so he would put on his safetys on meaning he would have sex and mentally try not to . He mastered that but now I can tell he wants to but he can't. We've talked about it and I know he would never go to a doctor. Any advice?
