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  • Oct 14, 2012, 05:10 AM
    LuiOus
    He keeps tabs on me but were not even dating.. or "talking"
    Met this guy through a few of my girlfriends.. really cute and sweet. I like him.. anyhow he always asks me were I am, who I'm with, what place I'm at when I'm going home etc. were not even "talking" like that.. but he got mad at me for canceling my plans with him.. then got over it a few days later..

    He compliments me explains why he can't make it to certain places I ask him to meet me at or whatever.. and appoligizes.. saying he wishes he could see me etc. his reasons are pretty legit to why he can't make it to were I'm at when I'm with friends.. when I say he goes into exact detail telling me why he can't make it I mean he does.

    But then he asks me when were hooking up.. etc. but then does all what I said above..

    What would you think of this?

    I also don't mind him asking any of those things like were I am.. ect
  • Oct 14, 2012, 05:41 AM
    LadySam
    Naturally, I don't know what his intentions are, I do know that who you are with and when and where are none of his business.
    Fine if you don't mind him asking but I would be a little cautious of someone who felt they had the right to know my whereabouts like this.
  • Oct 14, 2012, 05:43 AM
    LuiOus
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    Naturally, I don't know what his intentions are, I do know that who you are with and when and where are none of his business.
    Fine if you don't mind him asking but I would be a little cautious of someone who felt they had the right to know my whereabouts like this.

    Well what are you intending?
  • Oct 14, 2012, 05:51 AM
    LadySam
    I have no intentions, and really don't know what you mean by your response, could you explain?
    I simply mean that you whereabouts and goings on are none of his business.
    You are not dating, does he keep tabs on every one or just you?
  • Oct 14, 2012, 05:53 AM
    LuiOus
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    I have no intentions, and really don't know what you mean by your response, could you explain?
    I simply mean that you whereabouts and goings on are none of his business.
    You are not dating, does he keep tabs on every one or just you?

    Haha.. well I'm not too sure if he keeps tabs on everyone BUT I meant to say what are you implying by your response? I was also wondering what you think of him.. what sort of intentions do you think he may have with me.. if any
  • Oct 14, 2012, 06:13 AM
    LadySam
    The fact that he seems to think he is privy to your whereabouts, etc.
    I don't know, makes me think he may either be obsessed or he has a possessive nature.
    I also would wonder why he can never meet you, is it possible that he is involved with someone?

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