I have been with my boyfriend for 4and a half years, we met at school and have been through a lot we have broke up in the past but no longer than 1week, but 1month ago he just text me saying he doesn't want to be with me.. reasons was we argued a lot, he wanted to move on, and he wanted to sort his life out(when his life is fine) I have took him for granted but I have thought a lot about how things could be. I havd text him constantly even though I shouldn't... im desperate to get him back he's the love of my life.. he hasn't tried to make contact for the whole month, how can I get him back! I'm 17 & he is 20

I'm sorry you're going through this and I'm a huge romantic and I believe in fighting for that person when necessary but it may better to move on. Give him some time and trying talking to him and find out why he broke up with you and what the thinks. You are at least deserve an explanation though the fighting might be a reason or one of them

You are too young at 13 to be with someone in a relationship. Now, you are 17 and need to accept that he is not interested in continuing the relationship with you. Stop bothering him and move forward with your life. Texting you to end the relationship shows that you weren't worth enough to him to tell you in person. He isn't worth your time.

Age doesn't matter we both love each other and care for each other a lot.. I just need help to get him back

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Originally Posted by reannebrown

Age doesnt matter we both love each other and care for each other alot..i just need help to get him back

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Sorry, you need to give him space now. Time for you both to be apart. You got into this relationship way too young.