Originally Posted by
joypulv
It's OK to be fed up. Don't get into a vicious cycle of guilt with yourself. You love him the way he was but right now he's awful. You put your heart and soul into it. There's no need to feel like you have to do anything while he sorts out his life. Life IS tough for 20 somethings in a recession, and many of them do end up with their parents, but not so tough that they have to abuse the good things they had. Keep telling yourself that he is an adult and you don't have to give and give and give and tolerate all the things parents put up with.