I am totally in love with this man but I feel like I'm losing him, he only comes home when he wants to and on top of that we don't even make love to me no more. I want to move on because of what I see but its just so hard when I talked to him about breaking up that's is when I at least get attention. What should I do??

Sorry, but because you accept your part times/sometimes boyfriends poor behavior he only gives you enough to keep you stuck on him.

Cut all contacts with him, and stop being his tool when he feels like it. You deserve better, and can do much better for yourself.