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  • Oct 11, 2012, 03:53 PM
    johnhammond76
    I'm in love with my best friend. We sleep together, but she doesn't feel the same
    Hi.
    Basically I split up with my wife of ten years about 3 months ago, but things have been bad for over a year. Anyway 5-6 weeks I met a girl, we get on so well and became best friends.
    We slept together one night, and ever since have been. We do everything together and sleep together 3-6 times a week. She stays over 1-2 nights a week.
    She has said it's the best sex she's ever had, and when we look at each other I thought she felt the same way. I told her tonight I love her, but she told me she cares for me, that I am her best friend, how she loves being with me. Hut doesn't want a relationship.

    I am gutted, but understand how me still being married etc would freak her out (her family would really disapprove of our situation).

    Yet I still feel she is hiding more feelings?

    It is killing me, and have told her before I don't want to get hurt etc,

    What should I do? She wants to just carry on as things are, but am I setting myself up for more pain?

    Any thoughts or advice would be great.

    Thanks
  • Oct 11, 2012, 04:52 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Why are you not divorced? Maybe you should be free before you start trying to pin someone down.
    She says she does not feel the same way about you. Leave the relationship if you don't want to get hurt.

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