Father of my kids is abusing me emotionally---help
My husband paid lobola for me in 2001 and we now have 2 kids (boys). He is a well known advocate and I'm unemployed. I have asked him when are we going to get married and his answer was if I want to get married I need to find a boyfriend who will marry me. If we disagree about something then he will stay angry for more than 4 months without eating my food, making love to me, kissing or even talking to me. We are now without electricity in the house for 2 days,no food,no toiletry he just wakeup and leave for work. I am scared to leave because then I will loose my kids as he is a well known advocate. He is abusing me emotionally please help me, I really need help PLEASE
