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  • Oct 8, 2012, 04:42 AM
    itsmemiki
    Am I pregnant? (DESPERATE)
    Am I pregnant? I need answers. :(?
    Please don't judge, okay?
    Well last October 1st, I had sex for the first time. It lasted for less than 5minutes I guess. No more than 10. We were very stupid, yes I admit, to use the method where in we just pull off when he feels like he's about to... We didn't use a condom, and I'm not on any pills so... :( I'm not sure about the precum, but is it that transparent watery liquid? Cause I MIGHT have seen some of that. He pulled out a few seconds before he blew. I'm really concerned because I'm not ready for pregnancy. And I have this iPhone app where in I record my menstrual dates and last October 1st I was fertile and my ovulation was to be on the 3rd. On October 7th I had a light brownish discharge that isn't wet, but kind of sticky. And today, cotober 8, I have some again. I'm ashamed to say this but that night I masturbated >_____< so I'm wondering if it's just my "juices" mixed with blood from my past cycle or something entirely different. Also, my period starts on the 20th. :(

    During both times of "sex" the whole thing didn't go in. Maybe less than a half, 1/2 or 3/4 only? And Since I was a virgin, no blood came out on the first and second intercourse. So I think my hymen wasn't broken but I'm not sure what it really is.

    And about these sticky brown stains, I've tried having these before a few months ago and it isn't anything new but I don't think I've had them for 2months now or something. I'm really concerned.


    When can I take a pregnancy test if I had sex on October 1st and 2nd?
    How can I determine how many weeks/months pregnant am I from the time I had intercourse?


    Please help, I need a straightforward answer. Am I pregnant? Do you think so? Honestly?

    Oh and to make matters worse for me, I did have sex again on the 2nd, the day after I lost my virginity. It was still unprotected, but then he pulled out nowhere near the time he was going to ***. He just masturbated afterwards and that's how it came out. But I was already fully dressed.
  • Oct 8, 2012, 05:10 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    There is no way to know at all at this point. Yes the spotting can be a sign of pregnancy but can also be a sign for dozes of other things, from STD to infections or just spotting, that happens sometimes.

    There will be no real signs this month and you can not test till you miss a period.. So you have to wait till time for your next period, if you do not have it, wait about 10 more days and then test, using the very first urine of the morning as soon as you wake up.

    Sorry but no one knows now, and you just have to wait.

    Also yes that is what precum is, and yes it can make you pregnant.

    Next your phone app is worthless and has no idea when you ovulate or when your most firtile time is.

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