I have a double switch downstairs, a single switch upstairs. In the downstairs, a red wire in each common, joined together, a black in 'one way' on the left switch and the same in the right. Upstairs a red in common, a red in L2 and a yellow in L1. Both lights will come on but will only work with one switch downstairs. When the downstairs switch is turned on, the upstairs switch will turn off and on the upstairs light! Please help, very frustrated.