I want to get adopted without my parents permission by a kind-hearted, nice, non-abusive, non-neglective, non-evil, non-acaholic, loving, kind, wonderful, white, American family that has only four 12 year old normal sons who are immurtial and non- autistic and can't have any more children of their own and want to adopt an 11 and a half year old girl because the can't have any more children of their own.

I'm sorry. It won't happen. You will need your parents' permission to be adopted by someone else.

How on earth would you find such a family as what you describe?

What don't you like about autism?

I think that if you are being abused, you need to talk to your school counselor or another family member to get out of the abusive situation.

If you are NOT being abused, you need to suck it up and get over the fact that your parents are there to PARENT you, not to give you everything you want.

Either way, no adoption will happen unless you can PROVE, beyond a doubt, that your parents are abusive OR you get their permission.

And frankly, very few people who want to adopt want 11 and a half year old girls. They want INFANTS. Yes, some older children DO get adopted by their foster parents or by family members, but the vast majority of children who are older than 5 do not get adopted---they spend the rest of their childhood living in the system.

Some of what you wish for sounds pretty standard, but when you include 'four 12 year old sons,' I wonder what in the world is the role they play in this fantasy? Quadruplets are not very common anyway.
Many of us dream of another family, another life, running away, being adopted - but we muddle along with what we've got, unless it's so bad that Social Services has to be called about physical abuse. Those kids get taken away and put in foster care, not adopted, because the parents rarely sign off. If the kids are lucky they get taken in by relatives.
Otherwise, get good grades and hide out as best you can so that when you finish high school you can get a good job and be on your own.

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Many of us dream of another family, another life, running away, being adopted - but we muddle along with what we've got

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I still have those days at 66.

Wondergirl, you can have my four older boys for a while, They have about wore out my patience and fathers love some days. ** esp the two younger ones.

I can't do a notorary, but in China we "stamp" things which is about the same.

But to the OP, no this is not going to happen, without your government taking you away from parents and placing you somewhere, or your parents agree, you will not be adopted.

Also most americans are not going to want to adopt a 11 year old girl. Sorry just being honest,

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Wondergirl, you can have my four older boys for a while

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Oh, wow! A family with four boys! Just what she wants! Are you interested in adopting a little girl?

I'll be 66 in 2 months... still hoping to be adopted.