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  • Oct 4, 2012, 06:38 PM
    olivias1082
    My crush likes my best friend.
    My crush that goes to my church likes me and my best friend but mainly my best friend. My friend doesn't like him and I think he is cute. I feel like we were mean't to be together. What do I do?
  • Oct 4, 2012, 06:44 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Nothing. If he's not interested in you then he's not interested in you. You shouldn't even really be dating at your age anyway. Focus on school and being a kid, relationships will come later in life.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 06:47 PM
    olivias1082
    He doesn't hate me or dislike me he just. Likes my friend a little better
  • Oct 4, 2012, 06:49 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by olivias1082 View Post
    He doesnt hate me or dislike me he just. Likes my friend a little better

    Again, there's nothing you can do. He likes who he likes and there's nothing that can really change. If it bothers you then you may need to find a new friend because nothing good comes of jealousy.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 06:53 PM
    olivias1082
    She doesn't like him back
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:00 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by olivias1082 View Post
    she doesnt like him back

    Then you really have nothing to worry about. There will always be people you crush on that aren't really interested in you. You just have to learn to deal with it.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:02 PM
    olivias1082
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace View Post
    Then you really have nothing to worry about. There will always be people you crush on that aren't really interested in you. You just have to learn to deal with it.

    He is I know it.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:08 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by olivias1082 View Post
    he is i know it.

    You're 12 years old. You shouldn't be involved in situations like this. Stop trying to grow up so fast and enjoy your childhood. Things become a mess when you start dealing with relationships. You also need to be communicating with your parents. Make sure they're okay with you going out with boys.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:10 PM
    olivias1082
    What about my friend
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:18 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by olivias1082 View Post
    what about my friend

    Don't worry about your friend. Don't throw away your childhood for boys and relationships. Focus on your studies and your life and enjoy being a kid because it doesn't last long. You'll have plenty of time for relationships later on in life.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:20 PM
    olivias1082
    Thank you even though I can.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:22 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by olivias1082 View Post
    thankyou even though i can.

    You can what?
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:24 PM
    olivias1082
    The boy I love likes my best friends
    There's this kid who is my friend and I love him as in love,he likes me but he also likes my best friend what do I do.

    I truly love him
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:29 PM
    C0bra_M3nace
    Firstly, stop making new threads on the same issue. Secondly, you're not in love with this boy. You can't love anyone you have not had a formal relationship with. Stop trying to grow up so fast before you get yourself in trouble.
  • Oct 4, 2012, 07:36 PM
    Homegirl 50
    I doubt you truly love him but he does not feel the same about you so you do nothing and get over it
    There will no doubt be someone else next month
  • Oct 6, 2012, 11:47 AM
    saltlifek
    You seem quite young, he probably does not feel the same way. Instead of asking for strangers opinions, go ask him yourself, he's the only one who can give you a full honest answer, hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. Good luck!
  • Oct 14, 2012, 11:41 AM
    olivias1082
    Thanks

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