My byfriend thinks I am cheating on him, for almost 5 years, we have a child together and he has another with another person. But I have never cheating on him last year I went out with his coworker out so drunk and left with a guy but getting to his place I couldn't felt wrong didn't even kiss him. Just was tired of him telling me that I am cheating that I told myself then why not. We separated for 4 moths got back together for out child but now it's the same and I think his sleeping with his baby mama.

So what is your question, many men sleep with the baby mamma, in some cultures it is almost acceptable. ( not in my mind) but I have know many people men and women, who just believe this is normal and acceptable.

It appears there is a large lack of trust and it also is common when the man or women is cheating, for them to blame or accuse the other of cheating, to make it appear to be the others fault.

So if you want to leave him, leave him ?

If not, why is he going to the baby manna house without you, he goes, he picks up the child and takes the child to his home for the visit. You don't visit the child at the mamma's house