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  • Sep 30, 2012, 04:35 PM
    Idontknow123456
    No sex?
    Why doesn't my partner want sex with me?
  • Sep 30, 2012, 04:40 PM
    joypulv
    Why are you thinking that total strangers know what he is thinking? You have to ask him, hopefully in a calm and non-confrontational way outside of the bedroom.
  • Sep 30, 2012, 04:42 PM
    Cat1864
    I am sorry but without more background information, this isn't a question we can answer.

    If you would, please, give us more information such ages and how long you have been partners plus stresses, medical issues, medications, etc. We may be able to help.

    Thank you.
  • Sep 30, 2012, 04:46 PM
    Idontknow123456
    I no I got abit stressed.. Were in our 20s... Been together 6 years sex wa great for the 1st couple of years but now it don't exist.. I have caught him watching porn and masturbating! I trust him an I no he would never cheat but he always makes an excuse or if I touch him he doesn't get bovard or react back!. I've tried talking to him but all I ever get is I'm sorry I'll change but it never does! I don't know what to do!
  • Sep 30, 2012, 07:51 PM
    Enigma1999
    Your best bet is to ask him.
  • Sep 30, 2012, 07:53 PM
    Alty
    If he won't talk to you and won't change, then maybe you should suggest couples therapy.
  • Oct 1, 2012, 12:56 PM
    afaroo
    How old are you?

    John
  • Oct 1, 2012, 02:04 PM
    Idontknow123456
    22
  • Oct 1, 2012, 03:20 PM
    joypulv
    So you've been together since you were both 16?
    He may be bored. There may be no excitement. We don't know what you contribute to your sex life. We don't know what worries he has. We don't know if he knows how to tell you what turns him on and what he's missing. Sometimes women really do have to jazz up the relationship and get a little kinky. Try something, even if it's a lace red bra and panties under your jeans and sweatshirt. You might have to act something out! Ask him!
    Either that, or it's time to find someone new.
  • Oct 1, 2012, 03:30 PM
    Idontknow123456
    Yes we ave.. Thank you I'll give it ago :).. I don't know what else to do after this
  • Oct 1, 2012, 03:31 PM
    Enigma1999
    Have you asked him?
  • Oct 1, 2012, 03:32 PM
    Idontknow123456
    Yes.. He says he's got no problem with anything and didn't realise things had got like this tell I said something

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