Ok, so my boyfriend is 19 and is dying. The doctors are telling him he will be lucky to be alive at age 25. He wants his 1st baby to be mine and I want my 1st baby to be his. I am only 15. Should I get pregnant by him?
HELP ME!

Are you serious? You are too young to have a baby. Are you already having sex with him? What is wrong with him?

If you want him to spend the rest of his life in jail. At 15 you are underage and he could be jailed.

Also how do you know he's sick. He could just be telling you that to get into your pants.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

If you want him to spend the rest of his life in jail. At 15 you are underage and he could be jailed.

Also how do you know he's sick. He could just be telling you that to get into your pants.

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Excuse me? That was very offensive! I have been to the ER with him and a lot of other doctors appts. With him thank you very much!!

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Are you serious? You are too young to have a baby. Are you already having sex with him? What is wrong with him?

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Duhh! I'm serious! No, I've never had sex with him. I don't tell people I don't know other peoples problems.

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Originally Posted by crazymonkeys101

Duhh! I'm serious! No, I've never had sex with him. I don't tell people I don't know other peoples problems.

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Well, you are asking people to help you with your problem. And obviously, his problem has become your problem.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Well, you are asking people to help you with your problem. And obviously, his problem has become your problem.

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My problem I will tell but I won't tell his!

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Originally Posted by crazymonkeys101

My problem i will tell but I wont tell his!!

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In my opinion, you will be making a big mistake having sex with him and getting pregnant. He will go to jail because you are under 18, and then you will have to raise a baby on your own. How will you do that? Are your parents OK with raising their grandchild, along with you? Did you ask their permission since you will need their help? Ask them and watch their reaction.

Having a baby at 15 by an 19 year old is never a good idea, dying or NOT!!

At your age pregnancy would be very dangerous to your health as well as the health of the baby. Your body is not yet ready to grow a baby as your body is still growing itself.

If and when he dies, (I'd be interested to know what his diagnosis is), how are you going to afford the baby? How will you afford the hospital bills?

There are some very serious and potentially life threatening issues that come with being pregnant at your age.

A university medical center I looked at charges $300 + $30 year to store sperm.
That's what I suggest you both chip in on.
Otherwise you join all the teen mothers on welfare or at home with your parents for the next 18 years. Not fair to the child or your parents - or you.

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Originally Posted by crazymonkeys101

Excuse me? That was very offensive! I have been to the ER with him and a lot of other doctors appts. with him thank you very much!!!

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Excuse me. I'm sorry you took offense at that. But the question had to be asked. Do you have any clue how many guys would tell a girl something like just to get them to have sex with them?

I'm glad he isn't lying to you and sorry that he is facing such a fate. But that still doesn't justify having his child, it doesn't even justify having sexual intercourse with him.

If you really want to have his baby, then I would suggest he go to a sperm bank and have his sperm preserved. When you are an adult, then you can decide whether you really want his baby. Right now you are young, physically, legally and emotionally to get pregnant. You risk your life and the child's by getting pregnant. You risk him going to jail as well.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

Excuse me. I'm sorry you took offense at that. But the question had to be asked. Do you have any clue how many guys would tell a girl something like just to get them to have sex with them?

I'm glad he isn't lying to you and sorry that he is facing such a fate. But that still doesn't justify having his child, it doesn't even justify having sexual intercourse with him.

If you really want to have his baby, then I would suggest he go to a sperm bank and have his sperm preserved. When you are an adult, then you can decide whether you really want his baby. Right now you are young, physically, legally and emotionally to get pregnant. You risk your life and the child's by getting pregnant. You risk him going to jail as well.

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Thanks for the apology! :)) You are right! :)) I will wait 'till I know for a fact I am ready and then him and I will... you know... and have a child together. :D