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  • Sep 29, 2012, 05:55 PM
    misskelly
    Underage and wanting a baby
    Hi I am 15 and all I have ever wanted was a baby.
    Idc if you think bring a baby in this world is wrong at the age of 15 but it is all I have ever wanted since I had my miss carrige when I was 13 I have a boyfriend that what's one as much as me I go to school and tafe and he gose to tafe and we bother have a income
    Everyone that I have told about having a baby so badly has told me that I have my hole life to have a baby but I get so depressed know that my friends are pregnant or already had a baby
    Idk what to do :( help me :(
  • Sep 29, 2012, 06:11 PM
    ScottGem
    The first thing you do is stop thinking of yourself and what you want. Think about the fact that at 15 it could be dangerous to you and the child to become pregnant. Think about how you are going to raise and provide for a child with no income. Think about how you are going to raise a child when you are a child yourself.

    And forget about it.
  • Sep 29, 2012, 06:23 PM
    misskelly
    If u read it says We both have incomes
  • Sep 29, 2012, 06:26 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    If u read it says We both have incomes

    I hope they total at least $30,000 a year. Do they?
  • Sep 29, 2012, 06:35 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    If u read it says We both have incomes

    And how are you going to continue having an income taking care of a baby? At 15you can't earn anywhere near enough to pay for a child.
  • Sep 29, 2012, 07:02 PM
    Homegirl 50
    I'll bet you're working part time. That is no where near enough money to support a child. Do you have health insurance, you're going to need that.
    You're 15 and nowhere near mature enough to have a child. Graduate High School, go to college, get a career and get a husband, then you can think about a baby.
  • Sep 29, 2012, 07:18 PM
    misskelly
    STOP REPLYING I want this deleted but I can't delete this
  • Sep 29, 2012, 07:38 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Finish your education, so you can get a good job and have a baby when you are an adult. You are getting mad at people who can't understand what you wrote because of your spelling. I had to read it three times before I could understand what you wrote. Stay in school and concentrate on it.
  • Sep 29, 2012, 08:08 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    If u read it says We both have incomes

    No, actually, it says you "bother" have incomes. All the mistakes lead me to believe you need more of an education first. 15 is too young to be having a baby and there is no way the both of you are making the money or are prepared to have a kid. All you're doing is thinking about the "pet" part of having a kid... not the actual work and cost behind it.

    Quote:

    I go to school and tafe and he gose to tafe and we bother have a income
  • Sep 29, 2012, 08:50 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You are a uneducated child. Who will end up on the welfare rolls of this nation, This boyfriend will be gone soon after you get pregnant, and he knows it, that is why he also does not want a child, since he would have to pay child support for years.

    If you have a income it is so low, because of your lack of education that WE, the public would be paying your bills, you would be on welfare, so we have to pay for the baby to be born, would be paying for the medical care and the food for the baby.

    Guess what I don't want to pay any more, for children who want to play grown up.
  • Sep 29, 2012, 08:59 PM
    misskelly
    Get a life cause I ain't listen to u
  • Sep 29, 2012, 09:02 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    Get a life cause i ain't listen to u

    Immature response from an immature child.
  • Sep 29, 2012, 09:03 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    Get a life cause i ain't listen to u

    We know you are still reading our replies, so we hope some of this sinks in. Did you ask your parents about having a baby yet?
  • Sep 30, 2012, 07:25 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    Get a life cause i ain't listen to u

    You need to continue getting your education and get rid of this hair brained idea of having a baby at 15.
  • Sep 30, 2012, 08:05 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    STOP REPLYING i want this deleted but i can't delete this

    We don't delete posts. Once you open the door by posting, you will get whatever responses people want to give.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by misskelly View Post
    Get a life cause i ain't listen to u

    This shows that you are no where near mature enough to have a child. You are the one who needs to get a life and not someone else's (i.e. a child). You need to listen to wiser people who are trying to help you not make a huge mistake and ruin your life.

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