I'm Aahna, 20 years old. Last week we had argument on some matter. Actually he used to praise his bhabhi [sister-in-law] a lot which I can control, but that day he compared her with me which made me annoyed and I also argued with him. But after that within 1 hour I apologized to him with all my heart and said I'm sorry, because I don't want to lose him. He said it's OK, but I felt something missing. I feel that he don't love me that much now. Now he doesn't say to me I love you a lot as he used to say before. I have asked him to tell me clearly what's wrong, but he says that there nothing like such I am feeling this.
I am very much depressed. My exam is near but I can't study. I'm feeling very bad from inside as if I've lost everything

What to do? Please tell me how can I make everything OK as before?

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Stop apologizing and acting so needy. Put a smile on your face and do your normal activities.

If he sees you are happy and involved with life, he will be happy too.

Let he know how you think,if he is still angry with you ,just be cold and wait couple of days.

Thanks a lot!

The issue is, who cares if you said you were sorry with your whole heart, I am sure he is more concerned about what you said in fighting, Just someone saying there are sorry, does not make them get over being mad. And depending on who bad it was, what was said, they can be angry for days, weeks, or even hurt forever. And may , if you stay together bring it back up years from now.

There is no way to take back words, we say, Saying we are sorry is shallow and while needs to be done, has to be followed up with days and weeks of not doing the things we were sorry for.

Thank u:)

RELAX, you expressed yourself and isn't mad, just surprised you stood upfor yourself.Thats a good thing.

Thank u!