Most of you are now familiar with my story. Tonight after a long night at the bar and getting pretty drunk, I text messaged my ex. Even though I was drunk I knew and remembered what I said. It was very simple. I texted," Thinking about you", to my ex. That's it! Those exact words. One of my friends saw me do this and he said, "you idiot, now she's got the power." She knows you are out at the bar and you are thinking of her." You need to make her wonder, wonder if you are flirting or going home with someone else." Ya know, I'm 28 years old and think the game is just plain stupid! I think you tell people how you feel. You never know what tomorrow will bring and you may regret never saying something you should have. So my question is, was this dumb of me to text her? This is what I was feeling, it's what I feel all day when I am completely sober. All I said was those three little words, nothing more. Should I not have?? Please let me know! Thank you!