My boyfriend and I have been going together for two and a half years. We had sex at first. And it was the best for us both. As time past he got to where he was feeling bad about us having sex because we are not married. I have sexual needs bad but he will not give in. He says it is because he has too much respect for me and it is not right. I love him and he loves me, we are together every night for hours. He hates to leave me to go home. Now it has gotten to the point that he doesn't want to hug me me or any kind of touching because he says it will just make me horny. I know that he is not wanting no one else. But I don't know what to do. Please help.

If talking to him about it does nothing then leave. If you can't leave then put up with it.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

If talking to him about it does nothing then leave. If you can't leave then put up with it.

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Tried to one-up this post, AMHD disallowed.

C0bra_M3nace is on the money. You have needs and the boyfriend is not satisfying said needs—refusing to hug you? That's asinine—time for a new boyfriend.

Maybe it's a religion thing

After 2 and a half years, why not get married and remove whatever he is feeling. Do you live together?

I agree, you should respect that he wants sex to be something special, the majority of people actually believe this and many wait for marriage to have sex.

And no one dies from wanting sex. They control it, and work on the real relationship.

It appears you have too much importance on sex and perhaps the actual relationship you have is not the value he has on it.

What would you do, if he had a medical isue, where he could not have sex. Would you leave him, or stay because you love him

so as asked why have you not gotten married.