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  • Sep 27, 2012, 04:35 AM
    akansha patel
    Am I pregnant? And what to do if I don't want to be?
    I am 17 years old and I had sex just 5 to 6 days before of my periods date and now after having sex today is 10 or 12th day my periods are not started yet. And now I'm not sure that I'm pregnant or not. And also I don't want to let know to my parents that I have lost my virgnity.
    So my question is that is it possible that I'm pragnant and what to do if I'm and I don't want to to be??
  • Sep 27, 2012, 04:55 AM
    teacherjenn4
    If you haven't taken a pregnancy test yet, you should take one using your urine of the first morning about two weeks after you expected to get your period. You may be nervous and that could delay your period. How old are you?
  • Sep 27, 2012, 08:42 AM
    akansha patel
    I'm 17 years old.
    And I can't take that test now is their any problem if I take it after 7 to 8 days.
    And what to do if I don't want to take any chance and want take precautions??
  • Sep 27, 2012, 09:57 AM
    akansha patel
    Some more detail I would like to give you so that you can easly answer me .
    I'm noticing some symptoms in me because which I think I'm pregnant they are-
    After having sex just after 2 days I use to go to washroom 2-4 times within a hour just for urine but now from last 1 day it become normal and I just go for 3-4 times within a day. And also now a days I use to sleep a lot and also feel tired and sometimes my breast also pain for few minute and its nipple has also become dark..
    Now please tell what is happening with me??
    I'm really very scared and nervous so please rply as soon as possible,
  • Sep 27, 2012, 06:59 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Pregnancy symptoms would not show up two days after sex or at the point you are now. You could have a urinary tract infection. They need to be diagnosed by a urine test at the doctor. Why don't you make an appointment to see what is wrong with you.
  • Sep 27, 2012, 07:35 PM
    akansha patel
    The place where I live is a very small place and good doctors are not available here and it is not possible for me to go out of and get check up.
    What should I do now and if it is just a infection than is it necessary now also to take a pregnancy test??
  • Sep 27, 2012, 10:02 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You are having sex so yes of course you could be pregnant, what forms of birth control are you using, since you want want a baby.

    You are not having pregnancy signs this early, anything you feel is from something else. There are no signs at 2 days.

    These sound like infection and do need and require you to see a doctor, I am sorry there has to be a doctor in your area.

    You will need to wait about 2 more weeks, 14 days, to do any pregnancy test, You will do the test first thing in the morning as soon as you wake up.
  • Sep 28, 2012, 03:34 AM
    akansha patel
    I don't want any baby even I donot want to get pregnant. I donot know anything about birth control and also not even its use.


    Do you mean that I must take pregnancy test after 2 week and not now??
  • Sep 28, 2012, 03:36 AM
    J_9
    Yes, take a pregnancy test using first morning urine.

    If you aren't ready to be a mother, you might want to reconsider having sex.
  • Sep 28, 2012, 03:43 AM
    akansha patel
    When I have to take that test tomorrow only??
    Ya I can stop having sex but for how many months??
    And is their any chance of pregnancy if I stop doing sex??
  • Sep 28, 2012, 03:47 AM
    akansha patel
    And what if I can't take pregnancy test and directly want to take precautions so that I can safely stop myself from pregnancy??
  • Sep 28, 2012, 03:48 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by akansha patel View Post
    When I have to take that test tomorrow only????

    You can take it any morning, just be sure to use the first morning urine.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by akansha patel View Post
    Ya I can stop having sex but for how many months???

    Until you are ready to be a mother.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by akansha patel View Post
    And is their any chance of pregnancy if I stop doing sex???

    If you are already pregnant it won't change a thing.
  • Sep 28, 2012, 03:52 AM
    akansha patel
    Thanku very much for your giving me your guidelines and time.
    But please answer me that what precautions I can take now??
    I really don't any baby at this stage.
  • Sep 28, 2012, 04:04 AM
    J_9
    You have to find out whether you are pregnant first.
  • Sep 28, 2012, 04:08 AM
    akansha patel
    Ok thanku I will be back with the result after 5-6 days..
    Thanku and have a nice day
  • Sep 28, 2012, 05:01 AM
    ScottGem
    There is no 100% effective method of birth control. So anytime you have penile insertion you run the risk of pregnancy.

    I would strongly suggest you use Google and research methods of birth control. These can range from condoms to pills to patches and others. But the time to think of this was BEFORE you engaged in sex. Hopefully you aren't pregnant and will get your period. No one should be engaging in sexual intercourse until they are ready to have a child.

    If you are pregnant, then you will have to deal with the consequences. Some of your options are abortion, adoption or keeping the child.

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