My viginia lips get swollen and they itch all the time and burn. When I have sex it is very painful. But the burning feeling is around my butt hole and vigina. It also hurts on out lips. I don't know what this is? Can you help

Go to your doctor or gynecologist and get some professional help. They will be able to do some test and check if you have any stds or infections.

This is a sign of infection, or at least irritation. Go see your doctor.this is not normal.

This can be various infections and some STD, I would not have further sex till I had it examined.