I was recently married in North Carolina for the wrong reasons. I am in the military, stationed here, but a legal resident of California. My new wife is a foreigner, living here. Can I get an anullment in California, even though I was marrried in NC? I know the laws are very strict here. Is there maybe a loophole in this state I can hop through? By the way, I was married by a universal life church minister. Please help. Thanks.