So my boyfriend broke the news to my mom that were together before I had a chance to sit her down and talk about it, she thinks I'm to young and immature to have a boyfriend right now and sometimes I do agree with her but I feel I'm growning into a mature (okay somewhat mature) young adult. And I've been through enough and she's raised me on her own for the past 5 years and I know what is wrong and what is right. I feel like she should maybe put more trust into our relationship I was going to tell her but haven't been able to yet because I'm always busy I wake up @ 630 at school by 740ish out of school @ 3 then practice from 4-6 Monday through Thursday so by the time I get home I'm helping with dinner or cleaning and then its shower and go to bed by 9 pm. Not breaks for me and she's always at work. So now she really mad at me and I can honestly say I don't blame her I would be too, but how do I sit her down and talk to her and tell her ? :'C

You can start by appologizing to her about keeping it from her and going behind her back. If she you mother doesn't want you dating then you should listen to her. You live under her roof under her rules. You'd do well to listen.

I already have apologized for the past week and a half and I know I should listen to her, we've talked and I told her I want to stay with him because I love him. So things are going better right now but we'll just have to see what happens...