My boyfriend keeps on hanging up on me, getting pissed off at me and getting pissed off at me, and then doesn't want to talk to me. I am really upset and don't know what to do? I feel like he doesn't really love me anymore. When I walked into the room this morning, he packed his stuff up and stormed off. I tried talking to him and asking him why he is pissed off at me but all he said was "I just have too much on my plate". Then I tried asking him if he still loves her and he just said "Don't try pulling that string". What should I do?

How could we possibly know what's wrong and what you should do? Nobody here knows this situation that you're in. We don't know what you may have done, what he may have done, who you are, who he is, who this other girl is... Really, you come here and throw pieces of a puzzle out there and expect us to put it together without all of it.

If you can't ask him, and he's not willing to talk to you about it, then this relationship is doomed. Communication is the most vital part of any successful relationship, and this guy simply won't communicate with you.

Do you really want to be in a relationship like that? I wouldn't.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

How could we possibly know what's wrong and what you should do? Nobody here knows this situation that you're in. We don't know what you may have done, what he may have done, who you are, who he is, who this other girl is....Really, you come here and throw pieces of a puzzle out there and expect us to put it together without all of it.

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What did I miss? Other girl?

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Originally Posted by Alty

What did I miss? Other girl?

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Then I tried asking him if he still loves her and he just said "Don't try pulling that string".

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Good catch. I missed that part, or read it wrong. Darn pneumonia, it's making me see things. :(

Even without that last line, I think this relationship is over, and I think the OP would be smart to walk away from it and him.

I am so sorry. I meant that I asked him if he still loved *me* NOT her...

Really not much info, do you live together ( you walked into his room) sounds like his own room, but how are you walking in ? How often do you talk. And how long have you been together.