hi I need advice I am living in with my boyfriend for a couple of months now and since we live together we only had one intimate moments together I mean we madelove once its been a month now and I want him badly,we share same bed but he didn't cruddle me often,I did my very best to take good care of what he needs everyday I am acting like his wife but I think he doesn't appriciate me.. I love him so much and I want us to have intimate moments not every night but at least 3x a week.what will I do to make him makelove to me.please help.. thanks "Meg"

First of all, he is our boyfriend, but you say husband in your question title. When people live together, they talk about things. Have you spoken to him about this?

Yes we talk a lot... the reason why the question is like that is bcoz I copy and paste it and I saw this site...

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yes we talk alot...the reason why the question is like that is bcoz i copy and paste it and i saw this site...

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What did he say was the reason you have only had sex once? What was your sex life like before you moved in together?

Yes we talk a lot,but in this case I ask him once why we are not doing it his answer to me is,he has this difficult errection as the side effect of the medicine he is taking... he takes meds for hair loss... lately is a bit depressed because I saw him chatting with his ex. And every time I look at him and he notice I'm looking he will close the chat window.how can I approach him about this?

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yes we talk a lot,but in this case i ask him once why we are not doing it his answer to me is,he has this difficult errection as the side effect of the medicine he is taking...he takes meds for hair loss...lately is a bit depressed coz i saw him chatting with his ex. and everytime i look at him and he notice im looking he will close the chat window.how can i approach him bout this?

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We see each other twice a month before,means twice a month we had intimate moments together physically and able to makelove...

Sorry boo.. hes hiding something and mabey its another woman.>? I'm not too sure why else a man wouldn't want some .

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we see each other twice a month b4,means twice a month we had intimate moments together physically and able to makelove...

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Ask him to speak with his doctor about this. How old are you both?

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sorry boo..hes hiding something and mabey its another woman.>?! im not too sure why else a man wouldnt want some .

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I'm upset every time he chat his ex. I even leave our room that is my way of showing him that I'm upset before I leave the room I will say call me if your than talking to her and ready to sleep.. then he answer me no you can stay here we chat for old time sake,but the thing here is I know he love this woman so much he has a son to her.. :(

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Ask him to speak with his doctor about this. How old are you both?

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I'm 28 and he is 33...

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im 28 and he is 33...

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Have him see a doctor. Get some counseling. If it's not working out, then move out and get your own place. Don't waste your time.

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Have him see a doctor. Get some counseling. If it's not working out, then move out and get your own place. Don't waste your time.

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I wish I can move out of this relationship,I love him so much.. I just cat understand him why now hi is like this..