My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple of months now and we talk about getting more serious in a sexual manner. I want to move onto this stage but I'm nervous I don't know where her vagina is and if I know what to do the first time. Many people my age talk about fingering etc but I don't know how or what to do. Please help??

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Originally Posted by virgin boy

My girlfriend and I have been dating 4 a couple of months now and we talk about getting more serious in a sexual manner. I want to move onto this stage but I'm nervous I don't know where her vagina is and if I know what to do the first time. Many people my age talk about fingering etc but I don't know how or what to do. Please help???

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How old are you? How old is she?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

How old are you? How old is she?

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We are both 15 years old

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Originally Posted by virgin boy

We are both 15 years old

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Are both you and she prepared to raise a child in the event she gets pregnant?

OR are you both using some form of birth control?

I think 15 years old and in a "semi serious" relationship is far too young to engage in sexual play. However, if you do decide you are both emotionally ready (and understand the details of the physical act) I would suggest double protection.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Are both you and she prepared to raise a child in the event she gets pregnant?

OR are you both using some form of birth control?

I think 15 years old and in a "semi serious" relationship is far too young to engage in sexual play. However, if you do decide you are both emotionally ready (and understand the details of the physical act) I would suggest double protection.

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We only plan on actually having sexual intercourse after 18 but I'm interested on the more hands on type play.

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Originally Posted by virgin boy

We only plan on actually having sexual intercourse after 18 but I'm interested on the more hands on type play.

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Sex play leads to other sex play - I am just telling you both to be careful. Read the pregnancy threads, the worry about semen on fingers, the unexpected pregnancy.

In the meantime, despite your age, here is a drawing which you can find by searching the internet for the info, no matter what your age: Female Genitalia - Medical Illustration, Human Anatomy Drawing, Anatomy Illustration

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Sex play leads to other sex play - I am just telling you both to be careful. Read the pregnancy threads, the worry about semen on fingers, the unexpected pregnancy.

In the meantime, despite your age, here is a drawing which you can find by searching the internet for the info, no matter what your age: Female Genitalia - Medical Illustration, Human Anatomy Drawing, Anatomy Illustration

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Thank you 4 all your help I hope it works :)

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Originally Posted by virgin boy

Thankyou 4 all your help I hope it works :)

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I just need to know where to place my fingers, how to get them there and what to do with them...

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Originally Posted by virgin boy

I just need to know where to place my fingers, how to get them there and what to do with them...

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No one is going to give you step by step instructions - you need to talk to your girlfriend and see what feels good to her.

How to get them there? I thought you were both in agreement on this sexual play.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

No one is going to give you step by step instructions - you need to talk to your girlfriend and see what feels good to her.

How to get them there? I thought you were both in agreement on this sexual play.

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We are in agreement but I don't want to do it in the wrong time or ask her in case it ruins the moment

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Originally Posted by virgin boy

We are in agreement but I don't want to do it in the wrong time or ask her incase it ruins the moment

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Again, no one here is going to write a sex manual for you.

15 is very young for this type of sexual contact. I hope you two will reconsider. One type of sex leads to another and before you know it, you two children could be having a child of your own.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

15 is very young for this type of sexual contact. I hope you two will reconsider. One type of sex leads to another and before you know it, you two children could be having a child of your own.

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Watching the way this thread has played out I believe it's all about reaction.

My spidey senses are tingling - this is not legit. Maybe parts of the post are, but the last few, no way. OP is looking for a reaction which so far he hasn't received.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Watching the way this thread has played out I believe it's all about reaction.

My spidey senses are tingling - this is not legit. Maybe parts of the post are, but the last few, no way. OP is looking for a reaction which so far he hasn't received.

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Absolutely! Too much time on his hands.