I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. It took him a long time to attach himself to me he did not tell me he loved me for over an year of our relationship and even after that he never said it much. He was very distant for the long me and wanted to things very very slow! I understood from his past failed relationships. Well he has had this female friend who he never seemed to close with. About 6 months her boyfriend and daughters father broke up with her. She automatically attached herself to my boyfriend and wanted his to all the time. They began to get really close. Right away I did not like it. Well a few months after all of this started her daughters father/ ex boyfriend killed himself after that they were together everyday from early morning until bed time. Now they don't hang out as much because of me expressing my issues and she went back to work. But they tell each other they love each other and I feel like she wants us to break up. I tried to be her friend and to be there for her ex bfs death and she wasn't having it. She actually complained to my boyfriend that I was bugging her. And she wanted no part of trying to be my friend. Now her and I are really not in good terms. Dose she want him? Or dose she want us to break up? They spent so much time together that people were starting to think that my boyfriend and her are together! What do I do? The complains about me to him all the time about dumb on Facebook that has nothing to do with her she just assumes! Another note... My boyfriend was really good friends with her ex and was hurt by the death also is this why there so close?

He likes her unless that's not the whole story, it's like this one time I had a BFF she had just met a friend I tried to like her but they ended up both pushing me away, dump him before you get hurt, life's a pisser.

Sounds like not only does she want him, sounds like she has them, you just have not figured it out yet.