I've recently started seeing this guy on and off mainly just for sex we talk a lot on the phone about any and everything.last conversation he says he's going to start dating again and asked what am I going to do. Out of nowhere he says We'd make pretty babies and wanted to know if I wanted another child since mine are all grown up? Should I not read into this too much?

How old are you two?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

How old are you two?

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Hi wondergirl; I'm 44 and he's 37.

You have a sexual relationship and he says he going to start dating again. Did he mention he wants to date you?
His talking about a baby means nothing. I hope you are not planning on having one with him.
I would not read anything into it.

I'd move on and find a more worthwhile relationship.

This relationship sounds pretty shallow. It's just sex. Sounds like that's all it will be.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You have a sexual relationship and he says he gonna start dating again. Did he mention he wants to date you?
His talking about a baby means nothing. I hope you are not planning on having one with him.
I would not read anything into it.

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After he said he's thinking about dating again.he asks me what I'm going to do and I said about what? He says" well I won't be comfortable with you seeing other guys. That's why I'm a little confused. He's single never married no kids and He's looking for that. I guess.

Why don't you ask him what he means? Are you willing to marry and have more kids if that is what he is looking for?

He wants to date other people, and he wants to make your pregnant, sounds fairly clear.

And if not clear, ask him, if you can not talk and communicate, there are bigger issues.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Why don't you ask him what he means? Are you willing to marry and have more kids if that is what he is looking for?

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hi homegirl. You know I've been single a few years now mainly because I have the awesome ability to attract the most useless, lazy, dishonest men. Now that I'm 44 and petrified to trust another man.. I had stop thinking about it. We talk for hours at a time about any and everything. I feel that I am too damn old to not be able to understand a man. So my answer is "why not?"

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

He wants to date other people, and he wants to make your pregnant, sounds fairly clear.

And if not clear, ask him, if you can not talk and communicate, there are bigger issues.

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Hi chuck. That I don't understand. What sense does that make on his part?

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Originally Posted by missbranae123

hi homegirl. You know I've been single a few years now mainly because I have the awesome ability to attract the most useless, lazy, dishonest men. Now that I'm 44 and petrified to trust another man.. I had stop thinking about it. We talk for hours at a time about any and everthing. I feel that I am too damn old to not be able to understand a man. So my answer is "why not?"

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Well you obviously don't understand him. You don't know what he means. I can't imagine that a 37 year old man who has never been married and wants to have kids, will want to have kids with a 44 year old woman.
You need to not assume, you need to talk to him and find out for sure what he is talking about. It would be a shame if he just wanted you to have a baby while he's out dating other women.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Well you obviously don't understand him. You don't know what he means. I can't imagine that a 37 year old man who has never been married and wants to have kids, will want to have kids with a 44 year old woman.
You need to not assume, you need to talk to him and find out for sure what he is talking about. It would be a shame if he just wanted you to have a baby while he's out dating other women.

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hi homegirl, your right and I just decided to let it go. If the conversation comes up again I'll ask him to be more clear. Thanks everyone for your responses. Just wanted opinion from out the box.