My Ex Boyfriend broke up with me( we are together for 3months). We've been a couple tru online. Then before our 4th month we decided to meet. Then after 3days He decided to broke up with tru chat, telling that he doesn't love me anymore. I think he broke up because he saw me fat.

So I decided to ask for a a closure. We met and He told me he want a break up but he can't say directly on front of me that he doesn't love me. Then along the conversation, he told lots of stories about his family and jobs on how he was sooo stressed.

Then before we separate, He hugged me so tight, kiss me torrid as if he don't want to leave me. Then ask if we can be friends. So I agree on that matter because honestly we don't sex even once.

Then days goes by.. He always initiate the conversation. We played an online game and when he got time he open his character there and we are talking like nothing happens. He is still sweet there and also call our pet name..I know he feel that i'm doing some distance to him so that I can move on. But when he chatting me tru facebook there's no sweet messages but still there's a happy conversation and he like all my posts on my facebook wall, he don't do that when we are together as couple but now all of my post have a notification from him. but he doesn't text me now.

So now, what is this? What my ex boyfriend wants? I don't know what he's up to..

Please tell me.. Mix emotions here.. :(

He just plain likes you, but isn't in love. You can't really call him your ex boyfriend, because it was so short. Online doesn't really count - it isn't real life!
You are the only one who can decide if you have to break it off completely, or try to accept just being friends who really like each other.

Do you think that "like" can bring us back together?

Sometimes - but rarely. It happens once in a blue moon when someone gets burned at least once, and goes back to the 'comfortable' person they liked all along. I don't think he's just going to say 'oh hey maybe I do love her after all.' Think about people you like but would never be in love with.

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Originally Posted by lonelygirlfat25

My Ex Boyfriend broke up with me( we are together for 3months). We've been a couple tru online. Then before our 4th month we decided to meet. Then after 3days He decided to broke up with tru chat, telling that he doesn't love me anymore. I think he broke up because he saw me fat.

So I decided to ask for a a closure. We met and He told me he want a break up but he can't say directly on front of me that he doesn't love me. Then along the conversation, he told lots of stories about his family and jobs on how he was sooo stressed.

Then before we separate, He hugged me so tight, kiss me torrid as if he don't want to leave me. Then ask if we can be friends. So I agree on that matter because honestly we don't sex even once.

Then days goes by.. He always initiate the conversation. We played an online game and when he got time he open his character there and we are talking like nothing happens. He is still sweet there and also call our pet name..I know he feel that i'm doing some distance to him so that I can move on. But when he chatting me tru facebook there's no sweet messages but still there's a happy conversation and he like all my posts on my facebook wall, he don't do that when we are together as couple but now all of my post have a notification from him. but he doesn't text me now.

So now, what is this? What my ex boyfriend wants? I don't know what he's up to..

Please tell me.. Mix emotions here.. :(

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Please stop posting in magenta - it's impossible to read and unnecessary.

How can you call somebody you chatted with online for 3 months, never met, your boyfriend? And, yes, it's admittedly shallow but appearances do matter. I don't understand, though, why he didn't know your weight if you exchanged photos.

He loved you based on online chats and posts? I think this was another on line relationship gone bad. You can't make anyone do anything, and that includes "loving" you.